Monday, August 11, 2008
weather: fine/ slight rain
mood: stress
a very long frenz saw my nick one day and send me a video link. he ask me to watch it without telling me wat is it. so i click it. its xiao zhong singing, n i burst into laughter as i'm not prepare for tis. is damn funny man. his facial expression, e way he's trying to pull his way up.. etc.
so thanks to tis frenz of my, i really did feel more relax and really make my day better. THANK YOU~~
i realised one thing.
if someone ask for comment on something related to them or without asking, tt person simply say into their faces. they would tends to listen more to e bad comments instead of taking in e good too. in another words, e bad ones always cover e goods.
there r 2 types of ppl who take in bad comments.
1, although they took it in but they won't sulk deep within them. however, they take it as a form of encouragement for themselves. push themselves harder, make necessary changes n make things more perfect.
e other type will be taking in bad comments n start to think all abt it. making itself suffer. wonder "huh~ really huh..?", "y sia..?" ...blah blah blah. y make urself suffer? accept it n start thinking abt how to solve it.
by saying these dun mean tt we shouldn't take in bad comments. but although we hear all sort of comments, we muz noe how to make it useful to us. for example, someone comment tt ur skill sucks. to prove it tt it isn't, u should improve it! in e end, u r e one who benefits. no one else. n e one who commented on u, r e one who pushed u. or so called motivated u. however, some commented on others simply mouth itchy or wat. but who cares? sometimes it make sense isn't it? abit?
conclusion, no one likes ppl who comment smth bad on us. learn how to turn e table to make it benefit to self is part of survival. u wanna stay in e game? den learn how to survive.
Gina =)
mood: stress
a very long frenz saw my nick one day and send me a video link. he ask me to watch it without telling me wat is it. so i click it. its xiao zhong singing, n i burst into laughter as i'm not prepare for tis. is damn funny man. his facial expression, e way he's trying to pull his way up.. etc.
so thanks to tis frenz of my, i really did feel more relax and really make my day better. THANK YOU~~
i realised one thing.
if someone ask for comment on something related to them or without asking, tt person simply say into their faces. they would tends to listen more to e bad comments instead of taking in e good too. in another words, e bad ones always cover e goods.
there r 2 types of ppl who take in bad comments.
1, although they took it in but they won't sulk deep within them. however, they take it as a form of encouragement for themselves. push themselves harder, make necessary changes n make things more perfect.
e other type will be taking in bad comments n start to think all abt it. making itself suffer. wonder "huh~ really huh..?", "y sia..?" ...blah blah blah. y make urself suffer? accept it n start thinking abt how to solve it.
by saying these dun mean tt we shouldn't take in bad comments. but although we hear all sort of comments, we muz noe how to make it useful to us. for example, someone comment tt ur skill sucks. to prove it tt it isn't, u should improve it! in e end, u r e one who benefits. no one else. n e one who commented on u, r e one who pushed u. or so called motivated u. however, some commented on others simply mouth itchy or wat. but who cares? sometimes it make sense isn't it? abit?
conclusion, no one likes ppl who comment smth bad on us. learn how to turn e table to make it benefit to self is part of survival. u wanna stay in e game? den learn how to survive.
Gina =)
what we could have been, 4:11 PM.
